For When The First Tear Falls (Sugar Sober Series AND Word of The Week)
It is a risk. Writing this story as it’s happening. Without knowing how it ends.
I get scared. I do. That I will stumble. That I will fail.
And that it would make you think less of my Jesus.
But for a long, long time He has been whispering to me, “Tell our story, Beth. Please just tell our story.”
As I write those words, the first tear finally falls. The only drop that I have let emerge in quite some time. I have been so very numb.
Whether from the sugar, or other foods, or medication, or just a slowly crafted wall, I have taught myself to be tough. Even how to write with emotion without fully feeling it.
It is a natural reaction to pain and pressure. The body knows no other course of action except to protect itself. So it builds — layer by layer — a tougher, thicker skin.
Up to 100 layers thick.
Guitarists desire it so their fingers are less damaged by the strings. For dancers, gardeners and carpenters, it is a necessary tool of the trade.
For skin, a callus can be a benefit.
For a heart, it’s another story altogether.
People have asked me how I’m doing without sugar now for nearly 2 weeks. Truth is… I’m not sure. Because I’m still so sugar-saturated, the feeling hasn’t returned to me yet.
Like Lazarus, I have been dead inside. Like Mary & Martha I have asked the Jesus weeping at my tomb of my heart, “Is it not too late? I have already begun to stink. This will be messy business.”
Jesus says: “Did I not tell you that if you believed you would see the glory of God?” He had told them to Watch and See. The very same promise He gave me a decade ago. The same promise He restored to me just weeks ago.
And, like Lazarus, He calls me by name.
Beth, Come Out.
So I start to emerge from my stupor. Staggering, still unsteady, towards recovery.
“Unbind her. And let her go.”
“Then you will know that I am the Lord, when I open your graves and raise you from your graves, my people. I will place my breath in you and you will live.” (Ezekiel 37:12-14)
The tears fall in sobs. Freely they flow now.
Because I know how this story ends.
I will See His glory. I will Know He is the Lord.
I. Will. Live.
Linking with my beautiful, full-of-grace friends at Unforced Rhythms.
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